Every couple has different chemistry. Some dynamics are better than others. Some dynamics only make sense to themselves. Above all, laughing together is important for me. The world is serious 24/7 without any additional help from anyone, but laughter takes work and when you have someone by your side to do it with the world is that much brighter. It's contagious! The next thing you know people around you will start to at least grin as they see and hear laughter. Many times throughout our routines we lose sight of goals, tasks, and happiness, but I guarantee you if you take a few minutes to laugh at a memory or enjoy something together you will completely flip your world upside down and the day will not feel so glum.
Make it a point right now to recall an experience that made you at least smile, If someone of importance is around you talk to them about it. Do this anytime you need a pick me up and the negatives of the day will no longer be negative. Humor and laughter is one of the most powerful tools we have today to conquer the negative of the world around us.